Insights and Inspiration

Welcome to my insights on diversity and inclusion. Here I share practical tips, personal stories and findings about identity, multicultural backgrounds and disability in the workplace. These insights on diversity and inclusion are based on my own experience and work with professionals and organisations.

Do you HAVE a disability? Or ARE you your disability?

Every person with a disability I speak to is intelligent. Works at great organisations. Has talent. But there’s one difference: the degree to which they actually put that talent to use. And that often comes down to how they talk....

The meaning behind the name Kemai Coaching

Heaven gave me talent, so it will one day be recognised. This line, by the Chinese poet Li Bai, was on my birth announcement. My parents knew that a life with a disability would bring challenges. But also that I’d....

Being assertive isn’t the same as talking a lot

But that’s exactly what I felt early in my career. Whether it was during meetings or group discussions, I often got the feedback that I needed to be more assertive, more visible. Show myself more. It created tension. I put....

When exactly am I “disabled enough”?

Is a question I ask myself when the taxi I just booked drives right past at the sight of my wheelchair, or when the driver casually says he “doesn’t drive disabled people.” But also when an organisation wants to hire....

What you see isn’t who I am

My wheelchair often determines how people approach me. It’s usually the first thing people notice. A big, eye-catching piece of equipment. It sets the tone for the conversation we have: what the other person is already thinking, what questions they....